The 3rd part. The previous is here.
A century and a half ago, Sacher Masoch (I hope you are familiar with his work) in his book “Venus in Furs” clearly showed the principle of the formation of so-called sexual fixations. You know: girl in furs, peeping, corporal punishment + sexual arousal, childhood or adolescence.
What do we have from all of these?
None of us consciously chooses what will later become his “fetish”. The goddess of chance decides for us what our fate will be.
In the worst case it can be smth socially unacceptable or criminal offenses. For instance the story of Humbert – the protagonist of Vladimir Nabokov’s novel “Lolita” or… just visit Pornhub. If it weren’t for the laws that forbid doing this, I’m sure all these “stepsister”, “stepbrother”, “stepmom”, “stepdad”, “stepson” and “stepdaughter”… all these would not have the prefix “step”. It’s incredible how popular these videos are.
Sorry, I was distracted. But why am I writing all this?
If your “fetish” is not one of the above, I guess you can consider yourself lucky. Because getting rid of it… is almost impossible. (We’ll talk about this in the next post.)
On the other hand, with the same success it can be something completely innocent and boring, like a desire of women in uniform, love for blondes or some other trifle eg… a passion for large breast or dark nipples, stockings, high heels or footfetish.
By the way, about last one…
With those whose passion is sex of their beloved woman with other men, the Goddess of Chance acted extremely cruelly, but…
Would you like to rid of it? Or mayby you believe that it was the best the Goddess of Fate could have given you? In any case, you have no choice: you can’t rid of it!
To be continued…